Just returned from my trip to the beach with some family over at OBX in NC and finally feeling like I’m fully recharged after the last few months. Every once in a while I’ll take a trip for a weekend but it’s really the week-long ones where I don’t think of anything involving affiliate marketing and do things I can’t do with the distraction of a computer in front of me that allow me to come back refreshed and ready to pound out hours in front of the computer again. Finch over at FinchSells has always hit it home, in my opinion, with certain emotional topics like getting burned out with affiliate marketing and it got me thinking…
“The WickedFire mindset”, as he labels it, brainwashes us that we need to spend 24/7 in front of a computer in order to be that extra step ahead of competition. Anyone who doesn’t or anyone who criticizes this mindset is simply labeled as lazy! I was once under this mindset and sometimes I do still subconsciously think like that. Sometimes I feel guilty when I go play golf or go sit by the pool for a few hours. When I realize this feeling of guilt, I always step back and say, “what the fuck? This is EXACTLY why you are working online, so you can do this…”
Here are a couple of things I have found to be effective in my 5 and a half years of working online in order to keep your sanity and your batteries charged, or at least making it so you don’t feel like you have to recharge your batteries every other week in order to keep yourself from bursting with rage.
- Find an physical stress reliever. I’ve always played basketball and soccer but after high school I didn’t really have a place or time to do it between school work and affiliate marketing. I’ve turned to working out this summer as I have the past few summers and running 2-3 miles a day. This has helped me immensely and I instantly feel less frustrated afterwards. I’ve noticed on days that I don’t do this, I literally want to smash my keyboard and burn my credit card after every snag in a campaign. The trick to helping me the most is doing it in the morning before I do much more than check e-mail. Setting off in the right mindset in the very beginning of your day helps me the most for me because if I’m frustrated doing something it’s hard to go back to doing that same task with a completely new mindset after working out.
- Music. This one is pretty obvious but again starting music as I shower and get ready for the day is the absolute key. A lot of people claim they just can’t find music they like, for those people I suggest checking out Pandora. It’s amazing how many people know about it but don’t use it. I literally don’t turn off my music from the time I get up to the time I sleep. Right now I’m a big fan of Lupe Fiasco, Wiz Khalifa, Drake, and Curren$y. (All of which refer to making money ironically…
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- Limited Sacrifices. This one is a big one for me and one that I only recently stood back and realized. Everyone always says that you have to make sacrifices to succeed, that’s obvious. However, you have to draw the line somewhere or else you are going most likely going to be miserable at the end of the day. I am extremely busy as I try to balance college and affiliate marketing and during the first semester of college I sacrificed a lot of college time in order to spend time on my affiliate marketing work. I would literally answer emails while a girl was sitting on my lap begging to watch a movie or whatever. It sounds so pathetic/embarrassing but it’s true, she would get so mad at me for prioritizing the computer over her. I just never knew where to draw the line and a lot of people have this same problem. I’ve never turned down a party on a Friday/Saturday night or anything but there have been many times when I’ve turned down a game of poker or something of the like because I would much rather refresh my stats or work on getting this media buy live before 2:00. I guess this line is for you to decide but stepping back and saying, I’ll never be able to experience this again and this campaign or blog post can wait is so crucial. If you have a family, you should see many of the same type of circumstances. Sacrificing your personal time is what will lead you to success, sacrificing a unique time you could be spending with others will almost always be regrettable in my opinion, even if it means dollar signs.
- Enjoying the Fruits of Your Affiliate Marketing Labor. I’m not a baller and I never will be with my spending. I have a taste of disgust when I look on Facebook and people I know in affiliate marketing are flashing their pictures of their new cars, watches, houses, and etc. (Birdman is the exception for various reasons, heh) It’s important not to be a tightwad, and regrettably I have been for the past couple of years. I have trouble shelling out money for anything that I don’t feel is “necessary”. Perhaps it’s because I used to spend like a madman when I made chump change as a kid, and always would get scolded for it. (Cue the Jewish jokes) One thing I don’t have a problem with spending are experiences. Being able to drop everything and spend $500 on a plane ticket to New Orleans or NYC is an awesome power to have that I may never have for the rest of my life. Exercising this opportunity on a regular basis with friends is one of the best fruits of affiliate marketing labor!
- Making a Routine. This one is kind of strange to think of because of the fact that affiliate marketing is probably one of the hardest things to make a routine to follow. The constant changing and inconsistency of campaigns is very aggravating but if you are experienced in a certain area, you can at least develop a routine to-do list habit the night before and nail things down. I’ve found getting a piece of paper out and doing a to-do list every night increase my productivity immensely. There’s something a routine does for me that keeps me sane and less mentally exhausted because otherwise I try to do a million things at the same time and spend the whole day just thinking of what I have to do instead of actually doing it.
These are the practices that I’ve figured out the hard way through working online for almost 6 years now. What types of things keep you sane?