As some of you may know I’m big on reading books in my spare time and one of my favorite things to do is apply the concepts to affiliate marketing. It’s a unique thought process because affiliate marketing is usually very different than what the author is relating to in his book. The authors of the books I read usually have brick and mortar business experience and as affiliate marketers we know that the two lifestyles are definitely contrasting so it’s sometimes hard to apply the guidelines and principles they recommend.
The next book that I picked up after Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris was How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I hate recommending this to friends outside of affiliate marketing/business because I feel like the title is kind of cheesy. They usually snidely remark about how they don’t need a book to make friends, they are already good at that. The idea of the book is not to teach losers how to make friends because they don’t have any but rather to teach businesspeople how to handle people.
So why should you read this on your plane ride over to Affiliate Summit West? Well for one, Sky Mall is only entertaining for so long. Two, you can apply the principles that Carnegie talks about and have amazing results in a business setting. The information will be fresh in your mind and chances are it will open doors that you wouldn’t have been able to open unless you are already practicing some of the good-natured habits. For example, Carnegie dedicates a section on the following theme:
You must have a good time meeting people if you can expect them to have a good time meeting you.
It’s so true. At these affiliate shows some people limit themselves and are too nervous to do more than just go to the affiliate meet market and make small talk. Have drinks, lunch, etc., be outgoing and other people will be outgoing with you. We’ve struck a lot of deals at ASW and most recently it scored us a nice little bottle of Cristal for Christmas, among thousands of dollars of profits.
If you don’t have a chance to pick up the book or you just plain don’t read, please just listen to this piece of advice if nothing else:
Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language
You might say, “Well I have their business card, so I’ll have there name later…”. That’s stupid, remember it immediately and use it frequently and it will strengthen your relationship with that person. You might make another excuse like, “There’s so damn people there that I might I’d never be able to remember all those names…”. Well, Carnegie talks about Napoleon the Great and President Roosevelt remembering names and their techniques so I don’t see why you couldn’t, alcohol permitting of course. If you don’t think remembering names is important than you might as well shoot yourself in the foot and carry around a Poken for all your networking needs.
I’ll let you find out more of the principles when you buy the book but I couldn’t recommend this book more, it’s about 275 pages long and has a ton of examples of the principles he preaches in real life business settings. I know for a fact you can grab this book at the New York Times book store in most airports so check there if you have a minute. I’ve read it twice and have practiced the principles many times with a lot of success!